Wednesday, April 15, 2009

a video before i go....

... I'm heading out of town for another work trip tomorrow, but I wanted to post a long-awaited video otherwise it wouldn't happen for awhile!

This picture (at right) and the video (which is linked below) is of Mercer at his first Egg Hunt. Someone in the neighborhood organized a hunt at 10-12 of the houses on our street and the one behind ours. Mike & Connie's house (two doors down from us) was his first stop. We went to a 10 or 12 houses total, but Todd and I thought that he was the most excited at this first house and had a really long walk, actually. Check out the video and go all the way to the end watch something really cute (he gets VERY excited). Ahhh the simple things. Would 2 plastic eggs with stuff in them make you this happy? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bal0o31YHec

He really does love eggs. He calls them "ba" like he's saying ball.

On Easter, we walked to church up at the square... walked home... grabbed some food from the house... changed clothes... and walked to a neighbor's. We had Easter lunch with them and another couple from the 'hood then all of the kids played together in the back yard. It was a nice day.

He's going to kill me when he's older - but I HAD to give him these lamb slippers Easter morning. I've had them for at least 4 or 5 years to use when we had kids. Here are some shots of him walking around in his g-diaper and little lamb slippers. (Look what he's holding: a ball and an egg... he's in another room now... and - yup - still holding the ball and the egg in this picture too.) Really - he loves them!


Monday night, we spoke at a meeting that our Adoption Consultant had. Each month, she has an informational meeting for prospective clients and less than 1 1/2 years ago (Nov 07) we attended that very meeting. We were asked - like the family who spoke at ours - to share our experiences and how the consultant helped us out. There were about 8 couples there and it went well. It was SO FUNNY to see Mercer hamming it up and interacting with the crowd, though. He is definitely a social kid -- and did well playing his part in the show as "happy baby."

Tonight, we're getting together with an ol' baseball buddy of Todd's - someone we hung out with in college. He's visiting from California and we're looking forward to introducing them to the little guy. I should run and clean the house a little while Mercer's napping! have a good rest of the week, Candice


ps - had to include another photo of our baby "bird." You know when a mama bird comes to the babies with the (regurgitated) worm? Well, the baby bird's mouths are wide open. Mercer has begun doing this - mouth wide open - when he's ready for another bite to eat. It's hard for us not to laugh, although we probably shouldn't encourage him to do this! Oh well.

Friday, April 10, 2009

Good Friday

We promise that we'll have some video posted over the weekend... we know that we'll catch Mercer walking because he's doing it with some regularity now. Before, he'd sporadically take 2 or 3 steps -- there was no way to catch it on video. Now, he'll take 5, 6, 7, 8 steps most any time we get him balanced and standing on his own. Actually, he took 16 consecutive steps this morning. Yikes!

I travelled for work to western NC (Asheville and Hickory) last week -- hence no post to the blog. I got home very late Friday night, then Saturday morning, Todd and I headed to Athens, GA to meet some friends of ours and wander around the town / check it out. We didn't really do much while there: walked around, ate lunch, and hung out on the "green" in the middle of the University of GA campus. There was an international fair that the students were having, so we checked that out a little bit. We went to several of the booths, but the thing that interested Mercer the most was the dancing and music that was on the stage.

An update on Todd's work situation. He had turned in his notice on Monday of last week to his old company. He went to Asheville Tues and Wed for his last trip to his mixed-use project that is 98% done (no, we were not in NC at the same time - we were there a day apart!) Todd was asked by his company to make Thursday his last day. They just didn't have the work for him. So - he contacted his new employer and said he could start a week earlier. He had Friday off of work. Wow - one day off between jobs! (It gave him a day to work on cleaning the pond in the back yard, though.) He started work at his new job on Monday and so far it's going well. He's going to be working on a church for the next couple of months to help someone at the new office get the drawings done & out the door - while learning the new CAD system and drawing standards. He'll begin working on his school project after that.

I'm looking forward to a low-key weekend at home. We do have a n'hood Easter egg hunt Saturday afternoon in people's yards. We will go to church Sunday and then to a neighbor's for lunch, but those are our only plans. Yay!



I had to include this last shot.



-- love it --


Have a great weekend~

Monday, March 30, 2009

we finally have pictures!

Over the weekend, we went to an easter egg hunt at the church that Todd & I have been visiting. (Don't think I've blogged about church yet - but we've been going to a contemporary service at a church up on the square... it's very casual... not at all traditional (sometimes a little over the top as one of our neighbors describes) overall we like it more than some of the others we've visited.





They have an annual egg hunt at the home of one of the church members. They throw HUNDREDS of empty plastic eggs in the yard and in the bushes and flower beds. The kids gather the eggs then turn them in for a goodie bag with candy and stuff in them. M's too little for that -- and I asked if he could, instead, hang onto his two plastic eggs (one in each hand). THIS was his real prize! (FYI - it was 46 degrees during the egg hunt.... hence the wool coat and cords!)
What's new in the first photo? NO ONE is holding him up... he's standing on his own!

I had to take Mercer to the doc today b/c of an "unusual" diaper rash. He'll be fine... but I noticed something interesting as he was laying on the doctor's table with his screaming mouth wide open: he's got at least 3 teeth coming through in the top of his mouth! We had no idea. We think 2 are molar-style teeth. We thought that he's been a little fussy off and on the past couple of weeks. We attributed it to a change in his feeding schedule. (Once he turned 12 months old, we've been weaning him off the bottle a bit and introducing more solid foods. Also, we've been switching over from formula to organic whole milk.)

I know that there's lots to blog about (my work conference went really well last week. Long days, but a good show -- I came away inspired which is hard to do now that I've been to 6 or 8 of these conferences.) We had an architect - Ed Mazria - speak on the 2030 challenge -- attaining carbon neutrality in buildings by the year 2030. http://www.architecture2030.org/ . He talked about job creation as well as the ideas that he's given to the president regarding the stimulus package. It was interesting. I attended a couple of building science sessions by a guy who's funny, crude, and brilliant (http://www.buildingscience.com/) And I moderated a session on the Living Building Challenge -- no net energy use / no net water use / good use of resources / etc. Only 1 building is following the challenge right now in the country and there are 7 more on the books. It's pretty much the standard for the greenest of green buildings. http://www.cascadiagbc.org/lbc ) GREAT STUFF. The day after the conference, I attended an all-day training on green roof design. It was a good week for me, as I love learning new stuff.

Todd's work is taking a major turn. He is changing jobs. We felt 99% sure that when his project in Asheville ended in a couple of months that he would be laid off. He heard about an opportunity from his former mentor / friend... and went for an interview last Monday. A few days later - he was offered the position. The next day he turned in notice. He really didn't have a choice. It's the only way to offer our family some stability in the coming year. He didn't dislike his current place of employment... and of course wishes them well. It's a little scary out there right now. ( 2/3rds of his company has been laid off in the past year... and Todd says that 40% of AIA members (professional, licensed architects) are currently unemployed. He heard that stat may be as much as 60% including interns and unlicensed architects that are currently unemployed in Atlanta. We didn't quite hit that point of panic, but we have been discussing the "what if" with our financial advisor. We can't go crazy. He really didn't get a raise, so we're still on economy mode, but it's definitely reassuring.

He's on his way to Asheville for his last trip. Ironically, I will be heading there in a couple of days to teach a class on the same day he's coming home. We definitely had good times there and LOVE LOVE LOVE that city. I hope that we can continue to visit it ever year or two like we used to. It's one of our favorite places!

I should go for now... it's getting late... but I should report a few other things that little M is doing. Says "oof" when he sees a dog. He can take 2 or 3 steps together now. He is getting good at putting objects inside of other objects now. Also - he now really likes to give us a book to read to him (and re-read and re-read and re-read... we know this is only the beginning of that!)

Have a great week. c

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

yesterday, Mercer turned 13 months old. today, he...

... legitimately took his first step! (Daycare told us a month or more ago that he took a few steps, but we knew that wasn't true. Maybe someone was holding him / they let go / he stumbled?!)

Today (so far) he's taken ONE STEP twice. He has been gaining balance for the past week or two -- and is definitely able to stand on his own now. Over this past weekend, he looked like he was contemplating taking a step... he would stand on his own and look like he wanted to move so he'd lean and hesitate.

Not today! He picked up his foot, moved it, and promptly fell on his bum (the first time). About an hour later, he did the same thing, but we were in his room in front of the mirror on his closet door. He saw himself in the mirror and wanted to get over there. He took a step towards the mirror and leaned the rest of the way 'til he was touching his own hands in his reflection.

I think that counts... right?

I'm glad I was at home today to see this! (I am normally not home on a Tuesday, but my office holds a green-building conference every year - which is this week on Wednesday / Thursday. I swapped days with daycare. Yay!)

I think our world is about to be rocked just a little bit more now! We will definitely get some pictures up over the weekend (maybe even some video).

PS - over the weekend, something funny happened. We were at a neighbor boy's birthday party. Mercer dove right into the pit of balls they had set up in the back yard. Later, indoors, he crawled over the kid's presents to get to something he wanted. (He's definitely becoming a little guy!) But - at the end of the party, a little girl (Glady, 3 1/2 years old) went to give him a kiss. He gives kisses back now... but he comes at you with a wide open (drool-covered) mouth. And, so, he gave Glady an open-mouth kiss -- which shocked her as well as her parents!

good times~

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

things that are cute on a baby, but...

things that are cute on a baby, but... aren't so cute on adults.
(Have I posted this yet? I've been compiling a list in my head)

1 - a big burp after finishing a bottle
2 - little toots in the middle of the night
3 - double chins
4 - wrist "chub"
5 - Buddha belly
6 - snoring
7 - peeing in the tub
8 - the bulge in your pants b/c of a bulky diaper (bubble butt)
9 - bad hair days
10 - toes (go on - stare at your toes or at someone else's toes to see if you think that's a fair statement!)

I'm sure there are others. Please post a comment if you have more to add!

Todd's working late again tonight. I'm kinda bored. I went for a really long leisurely walk yesterday after work. I went for shorter (but brisk) walk late tonight, but did get to spend a lot of time outdoors this afternoon while the weather was nice. Mercer and I "played" at a neighbor's house / with their grand-daughters who are 3 +/- and 11 months this afternoon. He was showing off for the girls and pushing his walking wagon back and forth... strutting his stuff in front of them. : - )

He's mastered a new skill: standing for a few seconds (to a minute or so) by himself w/out holding onto anything. He's getting more balance.

A few other random things that Mercer has going on:
He popped out his 8th tooth late last week. 4 on top. 4 on bottom.
Also - he now says "Ka" when he sees a car drive by our street.
And, he's trying to self-feed some. It's messy, but it's cute b/c he giggles when he actually gets the spoon in his mouth. (he uses his left hand most of the time to eat (and to pick stuff up). Todd's thinking already: Lefty Pitcher?!)

I should go. I need to work for awhile still to try to get my hours in for the day.

Saturday, March 14, 2009

3 posts in 3 days!!!!

Got some good news...
Todd took his test earlier today and PASSED. Yay!

He is now a LEED Accredited Professional. (The LEED program is a Green Building Program that has taken off like wild-fire in the commercial building industry. He's actually working on a proposal for a LEED project, so this is great timing and will hopefully help out in getting the project.)

Also - Mercer's rash looks much better today... the bumps are still there, but much smaller and not red anymore. Here's a photo from yesterday.
He never had to go into the doc's office on Friday since the bumps looked a little better than they did on Thursday. In talking with the nurse, she really thought he had a reaction to the MMR shot from a couple of weeks ago. The information sheet that comes with the immunization says that 1 in 6 kids will get a fever / 1 in 20 kids will get a rash within 7 - 12 days. I've been following Dr. Sears "alternate" vaccination schedule... and on his website he's upset that you cannot separate the 3 immunizations out anymore. Mercer's been a pretty resilient little guy and this one definitely got to him. It's kind of scary!
(Well, we're not 100% sure that the break-out all over his face and "trunk" (stomach, chest, back) is related to the immunization. We're not ruling out reaction to raspberries, but we'll take a break / let him eat neutral foods for awhile and try again later.)
Little guy is down for a long nap. Have a great weekend.



Friday, March 13, 2009

I had to share this email...

I know I blogged yesterday, but..... I just got this email today from Mercer's birthmother:


Hey there,
I got your page in the mail with the card. i did enjoy my time out there. It was nice being able to see mercer again. Also seeing you and todd too. I had a lot of fun while i was out there. i am very thankful that you and Todd allowed me to come out and spend time with you guys and to be there for Mercer first birthday. Its really good to see that he is doing well. He has grown a lot. I think he will always be bigger then most kids his age. You and Todd are doing a really good job with him. I could tell when I was out there that he was well taken care of. That makes me feel a lot better. It was hard going back home when i left atlanta. I didnt want to leave but i know you guys are doing wonderful with Mercer. Thank You for keeping me updated and allowing me to come out and spend time with you guys. That really meant alot to me. I hope you all are doing well. Talk to you soon.


Danielle