Monday, March 16, 2020

It's a new day....

I was not expecting to post today.  But - it seems like a milestone day today.

Today was the 1st day of "Closure" for us.  The reason is apparent without having to even say:  the Coronavirus has spread to the United States from overseas.... at an alarming rate and everything in the country.... everything in the world has been changed.

This disease wasn't even on the radar of most people here in the US until a few weeks ago.  It started in China and - at this point - over 80,000 people in China have been infected with the disease.  It made it's way over to the US and we started hearing about it in February.  


  •  Coronavirus disease 2019 (COVID-19)
  •  Severe acute respiratory syndrome coronavirus 2 (SARS-CoV-2)
  •  December 1, 2019
  •  Wuhan, Hubei, China
















At this point, school systems have shut down while parents & students are all working at home together in an effort to distance themselves from others!  March 16th was the 1st day of our closure for the county where I work and the city where our kids go.  

Our first day that the kids and I worked together didn't go so great, honestly.  (I was busy over the weekend setting up an online system for my students to use. I'm just figuring this out myself. Unfortunately - throughout the day - I noticed that a bunch of students were NOT using that system put in place and were, instead, asking me lots of questions... all while I was trying to monitor what my own kids were doing at home!)  It was a bit stressful especially during the first half of my "Office Hours" duty.  

I was not at school much of the previous week - as it turns out - Isabella and I were sick at the beginning of the week.  (Cold / Flu symptoms)  She and I missed last Monday, but I couldn't even talk so I went to the doctor.  I was prescribed antibiotics and - after a couple of days - I began progressing / getting better.  I went back to school on Wednesday which was a pre-planned half-day at school... and on Thursday, everything changed!  

The 1st school in our system had students test positive on Wednesday afternoon and the superintendent told our principals that a temporary shutdown was likely.  When we all went to work Thursday morning, we had a "standing meeting" to discuss this.  I did not get to hear what was said, however, as one of the other teachers and an administrator whisked me out of the meeting... cornered me... and talked to me about going home.  My immune system was already "compromised" and they knocked into my thick skull that I needed to take care of myself.  I did not need to risk exposure to the virus.  WOW.  Thursday morning was a little scary -- processing everything -- but in the end I was just bowled over by their concern.  I talked to the principal of the school before I left and she said that I should take everything I need in the event schools were going to close.  When I went back to gather my belongings I was trying to convince the students in my room:  "everything's fine."   "I'm fine." (although I was reeling with emotion inside)  I grabbed the class pet... all the while saying "everything is OK, kids!"   

On Friday (March 13) we were told that our school closure would go on for at least 2 weeks.   However... during our first day of closure... there were news reports recommending 8 weeks of this "social distancing" to help "flatten the curve" of patients needing medical attention.  

These are but a few of the new terms that are now the norm.



In my next post, I'll have some photos of the kids and will try to provide more of an update since the last blog.  But - I wanted to get this penned today in order to document this life-altering event.

Back to "Day 1"

- Isabella's teacher provided a cute video for the 1st graders to watch.  While watching it with Isabella, she kept smiling and waving at the screen.  At one point in the video, the teacher's cat jumped up onto the arm of the chair and Isabella kept trying to tell her to look at the cat.

The teacher was walking us parents through how to access all of the online systems they have in place.  Amazingly - even though there are like 10 - 12 steps to access one thing or another - Isabella has it figured out!  She knew all of the steps... all of the passwords. 

Mercer's work was a little more straight-forward... just access one blog (although one of the teachers didn't have anything posted, rather, sent an email later in the day).  

The kids mostly self-guided their work -- with lots of breaks in between subjects.   I have a "master schedule" so that I can maintain my office hours and they can use it to check off / make sure they're staying on track, but there were snafus.  Mercer watched more videos than I hoped.  Isabella had a couple of melt-downs throughout the day and refused to do some of her teacher-assigned work.  I am trying to catch up from being out last week and grades are due... so I'm a bit stressed right now.  

But - it was day one.  We survived the hurdle of online set-up.  We tried to define spaces in the house where different people could work at different times.  The weather hasn't been great the last couple of days.  We only got outside for a limited amount of play and our nightly family walk around the neighborhood.  

I did resort to introducing my kids to an online program I've used with my students in the past:  Code.org -- I figured that they wanted to be online, may as well learn a skill.  It entertained Mercer for a little while.  Isabella was sooo into it. It was almost insatiable.  She only wants to code now!  (That was a WIN.) whew!

It is a different time.  
I'll post some good news / smiling pictures soon.

Be well.


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This SHOULD have been posted before the Coronavirus posts began, however, the virus posts were unexpected... and - when starting posting - did not know how things would go!  

At the end of February, our baseball friends who like to entertain hosted a "daddy-daughter" dance at their house.  And, because they have a son Mercer's age, they invited our whole family.  Here are some cute photos from that event.  We had little notice.  Isabella picked out her outfit (she LOVES this ballet "dress" that she picked out from a thrift shop 2 or 3 years ago / it's made the blog before as she dresses up in it when she wants to feel fancy!)  It used to be too big.... now it fits.... but we'll have to find another soon.



Also, I made her a "corsage" out of a fake rose received from a student at valentine's day.  She was really proud of it when we explained what a corsage was and Todd placed it on her wrist.  :)




















In early March, I took a day off of work (which started a lot of missed days - explanation below) so that I could attend a meeting with Mercer's teachers and school personnel.  He has been having some issues in school - mainly ELA - and he received testing for some learning issues.  They did some initial observations and identified some things, so decided to do a full set of testing.  At the meeting, they did say he has "extremely low processing speed" however he was 1 point away (1 POINT, ugh) from receiving any special services related to this such as "extended time" on tests.  This is something that we will obviously have to watch throughout his school career and - hopefully - there are some ways that we can help him in the coming years to help him work through this.  Obviously we just want what's best for him.   Since I had to apply for a sub for that morning, I decided to take the whole day and go on a field trip with his class.  I've taken plenty of field trips with my students, but I had never been on a field trip with my own kids!  And... before he gets too old/ too cool for mom... ha! 


We went to the Center for Civil and Human Rights.  I've always wanted to go.  (I'll still have to go back -- ON MY OWN -- because I was more concerned with keeping up with students than enjoying the exhibit.  I took this photo to "document" who I was responsible for.  Ha!  

I was very impressed with the museum.  And - this piece of artwork in the lobby is one of my favorite pieces there.  This museum - which I was not aware of until I went - is focused on bringing about awareness of ALL types of prejudice.

I bought this t-shirt at the very end as I was moved by the message.  I've worn it a couple of times not really thinking about it, but have been stopped and a stranger stopped to tell me about a time they were a victim of prejudice based on their sexual orientation.  :(   



In looking back on this day, I'm thinking I could have picked up a "bug" on this field trip!!  Makes sense... riding a bus with 60 other kids I'm not used to / don't know!





The next day was our anniversary - March 7th.  Because of ALL of the rain we had previously, baseball's "Opening Day" was postponed.  They had their procession onto the field of all of the teams, then they had a presentation of the 12 year old awards -- recognizing those kids who had played their ENTIRE baseball career thus far at East Marietta.... ever since tee-ball. 

Funny how the group of 7 year olds can't quite stay still for the team photo before the procession....compared to the group of 12 year olds (Mercer's team, below). ha! 

Isabella's team is the Copperheads.

Her coach is a woman -- I think the first for the league?  And there are 2 other girls on her team.  This year, they can't form an all-girls team because at the level she's at... they do a draft.  The assistant coach is Isabella's previous coach - which she is really excited about.


Mercer's coach is the coach for the All-Stars / the "travel" team.  Todd is an assistant coach.  

















Here is is getting his award at the end of the procession of all of the teams.
Mercer has pretty much played with all of these guys at some point throughout his career there.  For the last year or two, Mercer has been looking forward to receiving this award.





















And, I know Todd is proud.  :)




















After Mercer and Isabella BOTH had opening day games... THEN we went to a different ball field for a tournament that Mercer's "travel / tournament team" was playing in...  So - this is why he's in a different uniform.

Todd, Isabella and I left him there during his 2nd game that night so that we could go out to an anniversary dinner at a swanky restaurant up on Marietta Square that is one of Atlanta's top 10 restaurants.   A friend of ours watched Isabella and some of our baseball friends dropped Mercer off at home after the 2nd game ended. (It takes a village!)

The next morning, Isabella and I both woke up sick!  I with chills and coughing... Her with a little fever and coughing.  She and I literally laid on the couch all day -- missing the 2nd day of Mercer's tournament.  I was still not feeling well the next day (and I couldn't talk at all), so I went into school, got some things prepared for subs... and went home / went to the doctor.  I had some sort of bronchial infection (I guess) and got a round of antibiotics + steroids.  I had a note to stay out of school 'til Wednesday.  Isabella was at home with me (or Todd while I went to school / while I went to the doctor).  Tuesday, she was getting better... but I still had no voice.  

Still not feeling well, I reluctantly went to baseball that night because Todd was coaching Mercer's team while Isabella had her game.  I went...and in the end... was glad I did:  moments after Isabella and I walked over to his field after her game ended... Mercer hit a GRAND SLAM home run out of the park!  (One of the runs ended up not counting because the player before him -- in his excitement -- didn't technically touch the bag.)  But - it was still so exciting.  His team was down before this hit... which brought his team to a 15-14 lead.  They held the other team to no runs in the bottom of the same inning and won the game!  

There's a tradition - I think it's happened 3 or 4 times now - where the dad of the kid (who sort of looks like Mercer) and I go behind the fence and look for either his son's home run ball or Mercer's home run ball.  There are prickles and thorns... but it's a good tradition / we happily go into the thicket to retrieve the ball!  :) 

This was Mercer's (and Isabella's) last baseball game before the virus broke out here and things were cancelled.  The first Coronavirus case in Cobb County was reported earlier in the week... which resulted later in the week as the 1st death in the state.  

Luckily, Wednesday was a half-day at school... (grading was due soon, so the school system gives us a half-day to help) so I did not have to talk much.  And... Wednesday is the first day that the Coronavirus was reported at a school in our county.  Things were all-a-buzz that this particular school would be closed for cleaning starting immediately.  That next morning, we had a "standing staff meeting."  The principals of all of the Cobb County schools must have had a conference call Wednesday night because Thursday morning, we had a "standing meeting" before the day started where they were talking about the closure of the one school and alluding that other schools may be following.  I did not get to hear much of the meeting because of on my colleagues pulled me into a corner and "demanded" that I go get tested (since I was having respiratory issues earlier that week).  I didn't feel that this is what I had - not that there were any tests available at the time anyways.    (People are allowed to get other things, ya know!)

It upset me / scared me... and my 6th grade principal came into the conversation.  She suggested that I was compromised and should go home so that I wouldn't get it.  I felt cornered... but... heeded their advice (after trying to figure out what my students would work on -- again -- on the fly before their test the next day)!  I did leave after talking to the principal and the school nurse. It took me awhile to really "hear" what I was being told.... I need to take care of ME or else I'm no good to anyone else.

Happy to say - I'm fine... I still have breathing issues and DID go see a pulmonologist as a follow-up who suggests that I have adult-onset asthma.  So... I guess I'm still in a "high-risk" group and need to be more careful.  :(  

Saturday, February 29, 2020

We have a 12 year old now + Happy "Leap" Day!

January and February have been busy with "life."  Back to normal... 
School is in session.  It's back for both the kids and for me.  I've also started my classes again for the certification that I'm required to get.  Unfortunately, back to a few hours of sleep a night.  (sigh)



Mercer played basketball this season again.  He seems to improve each year.  The season was OK -- they didn't go quite as far as a team as he's been a part of in the past, but they did pretty well.  Mercer played Center - under the basket.  Todd took a some cool shots / enclosed here.   




I especially like the ones where he is jumping.  He has such a high vertical leap compared to the other kids his age!










Isabella is still doing her dance class.  There will be a recital later in the school year.  We'll be sure to post lots of cute pictures when that does happen, but until then, there's really nothing to share.  The rehearsals are closed and only rarely do parents get invited into the studio to watch.  


She just said that she wants to play basketball next year... we'll see if that still holds true when sign-ups are next fall.

She also wants to do gymnastics and drama club.  Whew~


































Baseball has begun for both kids, sort of.  It is off to a slow start and cancellations due to a few things:


1.  Both kids' practices have been cancelled due to LOTS of rain.  (Official total in January was 18 inches.  In February, we've had another 17.5 inches!) 

2.  Mercer had an allergic reaction to something DURING his first baseball practice (his pitching hand swelled up -- the fingers were about twice the normal size!)  Todd took him to Urgent Care and a follow-up pediatrician visit.  No allergy tests are required just yet -- but he now has an epi-pen.  

3.  More of Mercer's practices were missed because he had surgery on his mouth.  (More on that below....)


4. We had ONE tiny flurry this season.  It was so underwhelming!  And - it didn't happen on a school day, unfortunately... it happened on a Saturday morning.  It was gone later that same morning.   Mercer was excited to watch it.... from inside.  Isabella was excited to watch it from inside as well, but she actually got outside in it for a little bit.  


5.  Finally, today's opening ceremonies / opening day games were postponed to next weekend due to cold temperatures and high winds.  (Wind chills in the 20s and 30s today / strong gusts)





We hosted a couple of small soup nights in January.  The tradition is definitely not as well attended, but... it's still the perfect time to get the house clean (after the holidays) and make our favorite soups for the season.  We do get to catch up with some folks that we don't get to see often as well.






We hosted a family last weekend for soup (who used to come over for soup nights in the past).  I saw the dad about a year ago - visited him in the hospital during a really scary bout with cancer.  We haven't seen him and his wife or son for several years.  (A few things have changed since the last time they came over for chili!)  The boy was a miracle baby -- born about a year before Isabella, but he spent his first year of life in the NICU.  He's still a little smaller than Isabella, but I'm sure he'll catch up eventually!


The first picture is cute.  The second is hilarious.  Christopher looks petrified.

























The funny thing about this particular soup night... the kids were playing great together, then later came to the table an announced they were going to get married..... and that they had kissed "like 23 times~"  YIKES!    We said we didn't believe them... and they kissed in front of us 4 adults!   ummm... ?!


Isabella has had "boyfriends" before but she said she's never kissed one.  DOUBLE YIKES! 


And... he's not petrified anymore.  EEK!~
























One sort of sad thing happened over the course of January / February:  all of the remnants of little boy stuff are pretty much gone.  His bedroom set from 7 years ago has been replaced (the bedding and chair were his Christmas gift, but took awhile to get in place).  It's inevitable... it just takes some adjustments.  He seems happy with it though... especially the comfy lounge chair!  

Here are some before-and-after photos. (5 years old VS almost 12 years old.)



































The "major" stuff this month is all about Mercer.

We had winter break -- a week off!   Mercer had a friend spend the night at the beginning of the week + a friend spend the night at the end of the week.   Mid-week, Mercer had a minor surgical procedure:  a double frenulectomy.   The main reason why he went for this is because of his speech.  The little muscle that attaches his tongue to the bottom of his mouth was constricting his range.  The oral surgeon we saw - instead of just snipping it - actually moved it.  He also suggested to fix the upper frenulum as well while they were in there and his mouth was open / he was under sedation.  Mercer has a gap between his front teeth.  It's cute, however, the frenulum was causing his teeth to spread and could cause possible gum recession eventually.  The oral surgeon suggested we do this one because it could possibly prevent the need for braces in the future.  

Mercer was NOT a happy camper.  It hurt.... and.... it really restricted what he could eat.  (And as he's a growing boy, he requires a lot of food!)   He was pretty (h)angry for a number of days following the surgery.  He also would not talk.  We were told his recovery would be a day or so.  24-48 hours.  He was not making the progress as hoped, so we went back to the doctor at the end of the week -- before the weekend.  The doctor said he was being "guarded" -- basically overprotecting his mouth and not pushing through.    That was still true over the weekend, but as he started back as school this week, he pretty much is getting back to normal. 

His birthday was at the end of the week.   He was not totally recovered in terms of his eating, but he did OK.  The only thing he asked for was to go to the monster truck rally!  He took a friend (courtesy of grandma and grandpa in Florida who offered to contribute to an experience -- for his birthday).  He invited the kid who he went to the monster truck rally with a few years ago. 
This kid was one of his baseball team members previously, but he (Owen) has not played baseball in a number of years.  Unfortunately, they have drifted apart, but Mercer said he had a good time.    We went to lunch first (we were going to go to a place with good milkshakes since Mercer was consuming a lot of ice cream this week).... but he caught a glimpse of this game-room style restaurant and wanted to go there instead.

I was hoping that Isabella and I could go do something else while Todd and the boys went, but she wanted to go too.  So... we all went as a family.    It wasn't as bad as I thought it would be, but it was different.  I thought the trucks would race and smash and it would be muddy. 
It was more orchestrated than that... they basically held rounds of events such as making jumps off a hill, turning and doing it again before crossing the finish line with the lowest time.  Another round was for them to use all of the obstacles and the crowd would judge.  The last round was for tricks.... and the crowd judged again.  (the judging was done via cell phone)  There was one thing that was impressive:  they could do flips!  (by running up a very steep ramp that eventually goes flat / they push off of it and catch air!) 

Afterwards, we came home for pizza (cut into tiny tiny bites), cake and ice cream.   Something of note:  he's now wearing glasses too!  





















His major gift:  Mercer is now an owner of his first phone (sigh).  He's got a lot of restrictions on it, though and knows he's being monitored.  Hopefully this new phase goes well.  (Not ready for it, but.... here we are~)   He got it the day before his actual birthday -- which worked out well for the monster truck rally.  His friend had his own phone too, so they could vote on the trucks.

The thing that has made him smile the most, though, (I think) was marking his height on the wall and surpassing where I am in height!  He's not too far off of where Todd is.  He'll likely be taller than Todd by the time he's 13!  (He's already wearing men's 12 shoes.)



Today is Leap Day... February 29th!  Thankfully, he was born on the 23rd instead of the 29th or else he would only be officially 3 years old today.  ha!